Deals for Dogs

Alright, so you’ve read my post about everything you need to buy for a puppy. That’s a lot of stuff! Let me share some deals to help you go about getting it…

Facebook Marketplace – Make a list of what you need and keep checking! I found a like new crate, exercise pen, a couple of small puppy harnesses, a kong, and more.

Chewy.com – great website with fast shipping and good customer service. Look for a new customer coupon (or get on chat and ask if they can give you one!), I get them mailed to my house and they are for $15-$20 off a first purchase of $49 or more. Shipping is free at that point as well. Use this deal to order gear and basic supplies (not food, treats, or anything that gives you the option to autoship – save that for your next order below…)

So after you use that first coupon, take advantage of their offer for 30% off your first autoship order. Signing up for autoship makes the items cheaper and you also get 30% off your first shipment. There is a max discount of $20, so you want to spend enough to use that to the fullest. Treats, dog food, shampoo, several different things can be added to your order, keep adding to your cart until you get to $20 off! (only items that say eligible for autoship will count towards the discount) After your order ships you can easily go into your account and click cancel on your autoship.

Petco.com offers 35% off your first repeat delivery as well. Sign up and then cancel as soon as you receive your order. Max discount is $35, so order enough that you get to the $35 discount. A bag of expensive dog food should do the trick. 🙂

Check with your local pet stores, mine offers a customer rewards program with a free bag of dog food after you buy a certain amount. I also check their sales flyers each month. This weekend for example, all dog food is going to be 20% off. You bet I will grab a bag – and use a coupon too! Last week they had Primal butcher’s blend raw meal toppers buy one get one free. This store also offers 35% off your first auto delivery; I haven’t used that yet as I’m stocked up on food.

Where do I get coupons? I emailed a few places telling them I am getting a new puppy and asking if they had any coupons to send me. Tropiclean sent me a few coupons for $1 off and Wellness sent two coupons for $5 off (use this for Wellness soft puppy bites treats!). Stella and Chewy offers coupons on their website. I’ll update if I find any more.

If you use Amazon subscribe and save there are a few puppy things you can add to your shipment and get with that discount. I just did a quick search for items I knew I wanted and checked the price. In general I keep an Amazon wishlist for puppy items and go through and check prices, occasionally something will drop and be a good deal.

Puppy training! You know by now that I love Baxter and Bella online puppy training school. Use the code HEALTHY25 for 25% off the lifetime membership. This gives you access to lessons, videos, one on one help from trainers, live Zoom classes, games, courses, printables, etc. Tons of help and info there!

Credit card rewards? My particular credit card company offers rewards in the form of gift cards. A few of the places carry puppy items (Land’s End, Bed Bath and Beyond, etc). I was able to cash out some rewards and get a gift card to order a super cute puppy coat and a few other items.

TJMaxx and Homegoods carry dog supplies! They both have a nice selection of dog toys, beds, and even treats and chewy things. I also found the softest ever baby blanket that our puppy loves to snuggle with.

Happy puppy shopping! Let me know what other deals you come across! 🙂

Complete New Puppy Shopping List

As you may already know, I like to research things exhaustively and make lists.  Very thorough lists.  (see my Baby Registry List for example)  So, here is my complete and thorough New Puppy Shopping List!  🙂  I’ll even come back and update this list later on, adding and removing things that we didn’t use or needed and I forgot.  Our Shichon puppy comes home in 1 more week; isn’t she adorable??

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Everyday Gear:

crate – I found a nice one on Facebook Marketplace.  Be sure to get the correct size, and hopefully one with a divider so you can make it smaller for starting out.

car restraint – I’m going to try using this Mighty Paw Seat Buckle, clipped to the puppy’s harness (never to a collar).  She’ll be on someone’s lap I’m sure, but this way she’s safe in case of an accident.  Update: Cosie tries to climb around quite a bit when someone is holding her.  I found a used Snoozer car seat and she settles better in that.  We use it along with the Mighty Paw buckle clipped into a seat belt next to the car seat.  Whatever you get, take a good look at what you are clipping your dog to.  Will it hold in case of an accident, or is it fabric that will tear?  I’m not comfortable clipping her just to the Snoozer alone.

harness – Check Marketplace for these too, puppies outgrow them quickly, so you may find someone who has one to pass along.  I picked up a couple of them in small sizes rather inexpensively.  We started with a size XXS!  Plan on taking your pup to the store to try them on and get the best fit.  When she is all grown maybe I will get one from Lucy and Co, they’re adorable!  Also this one.

coat/clothing – Small dogs can get cold, especially in winter in MI!  I ordered a Land’s End squall jacket (on sale and with a gift card), it looks like nice quality.  I’ll update on the fit eventually.  I’ve also sewn a dog coat from fleece before, its not too hard.  Update: the Land’s End jacket is ok, it slides around on her a bit.  I just ordered a Canada Pooch slush suit because she gets covered in snowballs when she plays outside.  I want a Lucy and Co raincoat but they’re hard to find in stock.

6 foot leash – Something lightweight is good for a puppy.  Lupine Pet makes some adorable ones and they will replace the leash if it gets chewed through.  (no retractable leashes)

poop bags and dispenserEarth Rated works well. Update: I like these bags from Amazon better, they open easier and the holder doesn’t have velcro that tears up the leash.

collar – I actually haven’t decided if my puppy will use a collar or not.  If we do, it will just be for holding her tags on her, not for walks.  I may just clip tags on to her harness somewhere, we’ll see.  A harness is much safer for little dogs as a collar can put too much pressure on their little necks. Update: no collar!  A harness is fine, I still don’t have tags on her yet though.

tags – Haven’t found one I like yet, and haven’t decided on her name yet.  🙂 Update: Her name is Cosette.  We call her Cosie.  We’ll be getting tags soon when we do her rabies shot at the vet.

odor remover spray – We have one made by Woolite and it works well.  Nature’s Miracle is another brand.  (Also, stock up on paper towels!)  Update: Nature’s Miracle stinks.  We went back to the Woolite brand, maybe we’re just used to the scent of that one.

bells for potty training – Buy some or make your own.

dog bed or pillow – Get something comfy to put in the bottom of the crate, although maybe start out with old towels or blankets until you see how much of a chewer your pup is!

baby gate or exercise pen – You will want a way to gate the puppy into a safe place.  Use baby gates to block off the kitchen for example, or use an exercise pen.  I am planning to borrow one.  Update: I found a used/ good condition exercise pen and its been great!  We have it in the corner of our dining area and still use it at six months.  I’d say its a necessity for a small dog.  Bigger dogs would outgrow it quickly and in that case use the baby gates to create a safe space.

Health and Grooming: 

shampooEarthbath is great. Kin + Kind or Tropiclean look nice too, although I’ve not tried those.  For brushing, I might try a human detangling spray or a small amount of puppy conditioner in a spray bottle diluted with water.

eyes and ears – I’ve heard good things about both Tropiclean Spa Tear Stain Cleanser and Tropiclean ear cleanerUpdate: I really like the Tropiclean Spa Tear Stain Cleaner!  

brushesAndis comb, Lil Pals comb and small slicker brush, Greenbone detangling brush, and also a Wet brush brand human brush.  I might have gone a little overboard on the brushes, we’ll see.  🙂  Update: yep, overboard.  My favorites are the Andi’s steel comb and the human wet brush. 

I got this cute container at Meijer to keep all the grooming things in so I can have them handy:

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nail clipper – Safari small nail trimmer.

styptic powder -necessary to have on hand for when you accidentally clip their little nails too short.  A pinch of it quickly stops the bleeding.

toothbrush and toothpastePetzLife is all natural and breaks down tartar even without tons of brushing.

scissors and clippers for home grooming – I have the Wahl KM10 clippers, the guide comb attachments, and a curved scissors with blunt tips for trimming near her eyes.  I did order Geib Gator thinning shears as well, but I’m not quite skilled enough to use those yet.  Yes, this equipment is EXPENSIVE, but so is grooming.  I was determined to do it myself and spent lots of time watching videos on how to do it.  So far I’ve groomed Cosie completely myself and am having fun with it.

If you have a dog that needs grooming and you don’t plan to do it at home you’ll still need a scissors to trim hair from around their eyes.  Cosie also needs her fur trimmed in between her paw pads or it grows so long that her pads can’t grip well.

flea and tick spray – We treat our yard with something natural like Wondercide.  I also spray Wondercide on my dogs when we are headed to an outdoor area where they might pick up fleas or ticks.

first aid/ medications – I’m still working on this.  Will let you know what I come up with!

Food and Treats:

food – Some brands to consider: Orijen, Stella and Chewy, Tiki dog, Halo, Canidae, Wellness, Petguard Lifespan, Holistic Select.  We’ve used Orijen for years with our labrador, its pricey, but top quality and she’s been very healthy.  They’re coming out with a small breed formula I’ll be trying out when puppy is on adult food.  Update: So far we’ve used Stella and Chewy – she loves the meal mixers – and we just opened up a bag of Orijen puppy food.  It might be her favorite thing ever.  I plan to do a post soon with more details about food and treats we like.

training treatsWellness soft puppy bites, Beef liver bites, Stella and Chewy’s meal mixers

chewsBenebone, Nylabone puppy (I’m on the fence about both of these.  I don’t like my puppy chewing on plastic, but puppies DO need to chew… elk antlers, yak cheese, lamb horn are all natural options, but they can be too hard and break teeth.  I’ll update when we see what works best.) Update: Cosie never loved the Benebone.  She likes her Nylabone; I steal it from her and trim off pieces of plastic whenever she starts to get some loose.  She also loves a lamb’s horn and elk antler.  I’m going to pick up some Tasman brand Buffalo chews soon as I’ve heard they can be a good option.

treat toysKong puppy, West Paw tux, and toppl  get used around here almost daily.  You’ll want a couple of Kongs so that you can stuff them and have them ready in the freezer.  Trust me, they buy you some time by keeping your busy puppy occupied!  Planet Dog Snoop is another fun toy.

food scoopThis one is sturdy and has a nice size handle.

container for food – Something like this or we have this smaller one that I keep in my pantry.

treat container – so cuteUpdate: I love this little container.  Its super easy to open and seals tightly.  

food and water dishes – Look for a high quality stainless steel.  Plastic can harbor bacteria, and some metal bowls have been found to contain lead or be radioactive.  Basis Pet look like a nice brand, although pricey.  I chose these and like them.

dog treat molds – Something like this.  Check Pinterest for all kinds of fun recipes.  I use these to freeze raw goats milk or pumpkin or all kinds of healthy things!  (Look for another blog post on food/ treats coming soon.)

Toys:

JW holey ball – comes in different sizes.  I’m planning to take my puppy in to the pet store and see which size is best for her.

small tennis balls

Kong Wild Knots bear

Kong Wubba

homemade fleece “rope” toy – We made a bunch of these in small and large sizes.  We’ve sold some to friends and family in order to raise money for our puppy.  🙂

Chuckit – awesome fetch toy, you don’t have to pick up the slobbery tennis ball!  Get the right size for your pup.

ZippyPaws burrow toy – These come in all different styles, I like this cookie jar one.

Lickimat – this is awesome for distracting Cosie while I clip her nails or give her a haircut.

puzzle toysTrixie and Nina Ottosson both make a variety of games in several difficulty levels

Training:

Baxter and Bella – This is an awesome online training course! Highly recommended. Contains lessons, how to videos, printable checklist and much more. Totally walks you through the process of training your dog and you get lifetime access. Use the code HEALTHY25 for 25% off and train your dog right from home!

From Needles to Natural by Dr Judy Morgan – I have this book on the way to me, it looks like a great resource.

101 Dog Tricks and 101 Dog Tricks For Kids by Kyra Sundance – these are fun books, we have them from the library right now

training dumbbell, training leash 30′ (This is good for letting Cosie get some exercise in our large unfenced backyard.)

maybe get at some point: dog life jacket, Coolaroo bed, paw washer cup, and definitely a plush cake for her first birthday!

There you have it!  I feel like I’m kind of showing all my crazy here, but maybe this is helpful to someone.  🙂  Enjoy your puppies!

The Homeschool Elective I’m Most Excited About

Along with the curriculum plans in my last post, the homeschool elective I’m most excited about doing with the kids is … Dog Training 101!  We are hoping to get a little Shichon puppy at the end of September (a Shih tzu/ Bichon mix).  The kids and I have been busy doing all sorts of research on dogs and making dog toys to sell as a fundraiser.  We already have a labrador that we love dearly, she’s just a bit too big and strong for the kids to take on walks, and she can’t quite sit on our laps.  🙂  I’m looking forward to this newest member of our family for several reasons:

– I’ve always said that when I grow up I would get a small fluffy dog.  You know, the kind that needs it hair brushed daily and sits on a small pink bed, wears a diamond collar, and answers to Princess or Fluffy or something like that?  I’m turning 40 in September, so its totally time to go for it!

– The kids are going to help train the dog!  I think its really important in our homeschool to focus on learning skills along with our academics – cooking, sewing, piano, and the like.  Dog training is a great skill to learn and something the kids could build on later in life as an animal trainer, vet tech, or many other occupations.  Its also basically a beginning communication course for kids – I’ll explain what I mean by that in a minute.

How am I going to make this into a school subject?  Well, initially I was planning on training the dog myself and attending local classes.  I emailed a couple of trainers and asked them about classes and fees and so on.  A couple of them I even sent more than one email, but NO ONE responded to me.  With covid happening right now, I can only assume its thrown their schedules up in the air.  Eventually after searching through various books and online offerings, we came across Baxter and Bella.  I am super impressed with what they have to offer!  It didn’t take me long to realize that this is a course I can use with my kids.  Along with videos and clear lessons, it walks you completely through the process of dog training and helps you step by step.  We’ve been listening to some of their podcasts and are excited to get started with lessons.

Baxter and Bella online dog training program provides everything you will need in order to successfully train a dog.  There are more than 65 lessons, over 100 how-to videos, printable charts & checklists, as well as lifetime access to many other supporting resources, even including unlimited one-on-one video coaching, phone calling, events, classes and courses too!  You can learn more about who they are, what they offer and how to get started by visiting: https://www.baxterandbella.com/learn-more  Use the code “HEALTHY25” for 25% off the membership! 

Now, let me explain what I mean with my comparison of dog training to a communications course.  Dogs do not communicate exactly the way that people do.  In fact, sometimes they have the opposite response than you want them to.  For example, you might be calling a dog’s name and chasing it while trying to get it to come inside.  The dog, however, is happily running around the yard, convinced that you’re playing a fun game.  Dogs don’t read minds, respond to long explanations, or understand that “what you’re really saying is…”  Training a dog involves thinking ahead through what you want the dog to do, giving a clear, consistent command, and following up with a treat or praise.  It often involves problem solving and putting yourself in the dog’s shoes for a minute to figure out how or why your dog is doing something.

It is a valuable skill to learn that your audience may not receive communication the way you intended them to. It is a valuable skill to think through what you are trying to say and how to best convey that.  Its a valuable skill to consider how someone else is going to respond to your words, actions, and even tone of voice. 

Best of all, dog training comes with such high value rewards!  Clear communication is rewarded by the dog’s response.  And this is repeated over and over again!  Its a huge confidence builder to unlock the secrets of communication and successfully implement them.  What kid doesn’t love to show off his dog’s tricks?  Can you tell I’m super excited about our new fluffy family member?  I am!  

So, let me leave you with these two things:

I’ve created a Facebook group called The Healthy Small Breed Dog where I’m compiling lots of info, research, links, and more.  Come join us!

Check out BaxterandBella.com and see what you think.  If you’re interested in joining, use the code “HEALTHY25” for 25% off.  (Yes, its my affiliate code, only shared because its something I love.)

Curriculum Fall 2020

Lucy – 10th

History – Saint Raphael/ Schole Academy online course: Ancient Greeks

Literature – Saint Raphael/Schole Academy online course: Ancient Greeks, Usborne Book of Greek Myths

Science – PAC Chemisty, Chemistry 101 dvd

Math – Teaching Textbooks Geometry

Grammar – Fix It Grammar Book 2

Personal Finance – Dave Ramsey’s high school course (one semester)

Logic – Art of Argument (second semester)

Typing – typingclub.com

Piano

Spanish – Talkbox.mom

Ballet 

Kiwi Maker Crate

 

Julia – 8th Grade

History – Story of the World 1

Literature – Evan-Moor Read and Understand Poetry 5-6 (once a week)

Shiloh: Novel Thinking guide from Critical Thinking Company (first semester),

Evan-Moor Literature Pockets Greek and Roman Myths, Usborne Illustrated Stories from Greek Myths (second semester)

Science – Apologia Human Anatomy and Physiology with notebook journal

Math – Teaching Textbooks Pre-algebra

Grammar – Fix It Grammar Book 2

Writing – Usborne Write and Design Your Own Magazine, Creative Writer’s Handbook

Spelling – Rod and Staff 7

Piano lessons

Spanish – Talkbox.mom

Personal Finance – Dave Ramsey’s middle school course

Art – Artistic Pursuits 6-8

Gymnastics

Extras – Julia is planning to help out at a therapeutic riding center this fall.  She loves horseback riding and is excited to volunteer.

also, Dog Training 101!

 

Esther – 5th

History – Story of the World 1

Literature – Evan-Moor Read and Understand Poetry 5-6 (once a week)

Shiloh: Novel Thinking guide from Critical Thinking Company (first semester),

Evan-Moor Literature Pockets Greek and Roman Myths, Usborne Illustrated Stories from Greek Myths (second semester)

Science – Apologia Human Anatomy and Physiology with notebook journal

Math – Math Mammoth 5

Grammar/ English – Critical Thinking Company Language Smarts book E

Writing – Usborne Creative Writing Book, Creative Writer’s Handbook

Spelling – Rod and Staff 5

Piano

Spanish – Talkbox.mom

Art – Artistic Pursuits 6-8

Gymnastics

and Dog Training 101!

 

Isaac – 3rd

History – Story of the World 1

Literature – Shiloh: Novel Thinking guide from Critical Thinking Company (first semester),

Evan-Moor Literature Pockets Greek and Roman Myths, Usborne Illustrated Stories from Greek Myths (second semester)

Science – Apologia Human Anatomy and Physiology with notebook journal

Math – Math Mammoth 3

Grammar/ English – Language Smarts Book D from Critical Thinking Company

Spelling – Rod and Staff 3

Piano

Spanish – Talkbox.mom

Art – Artistic Pursuits 6-8

Kiwi Crate

and Dog Training 101!

 

Colin – K

continuing with My Father’s World K for reading and early math, will move to Rod and Staff phonics when we finish MFW

Prodigies music with deskbells

Math – Evan-Moor Skill Sharpeners Math K

Spanish – Talkbox.mom

Raddish Kids Cooking

 

Annette – 3 1/2 years old

A Year of Playing Skillfully

Prodigies music

DIY Cloth Face Mask

Due to the Coronavirus and a shortage of masks, many people are making cloth masks and donating them.  Hospitals, nursing homes, any place that uses masks might be in need of these!  I started out pretty confused by all the different patterns, but finally came up with something that seems to work well.  My sister in law is a nurse and this is the pattern she requested.  Check with your local hospital to see what they are accepting and know that things are constantly changing.  From what I can tell right now though, this is a great place to start.  This version has a pocket for a filter to be inserted, and a channel where a nose wire can be placed.  (Note: please leave the twisty tie out when donating as many hospitals are concerned about the wire holding up in the wash.)

I can NOT take credit for this pattern.  Its mostly taken from THIS youtube video, and my adaptations are mostly things that my friend Megan told me she was doing!  Thanks to video chat and me being thoroughly confused for a while and asking her lots of questions… we finally sorted it out.  I just wanted to show a couple of other people what I ended up learning, and well, we’re all quarantined, so this is the only way I can show my friends who are sewing these along with me.  🙂

Start with a piece of fabric, 15″ x 7.5″.

Serge or zigzag both short edges of your piece of fabric.  I used a G foot and selected stitch 6 on my machine.

Fold your piece in half, right sides together.  Place pins 1 1/2″ in from each edge and sew, leaving the middle open.

Iron the seam open and sew across each side of the opening.  This gets a little tricky, see the video I linked to above for a how-to.

I’ve been using two pieces of elastic, 8″ each.  This is where we stray a bit from the video… leave the piece inside out as shown and tuck one end of the elastic inside in the bottom corner and sew up the side, leaving 3-4″ open – don’t close the side all the way.  Be sure you situate the opening near the top of one side like this:  (It should even be a little bit farther up than shown, you just need to leave space for the nose wire channel you’ll make in a minute.)

Now turn it right side out.  Grab the free end of the elastic and tuck it in the top corner.  Turn the raw edges in and seal them up at the same time.  Sew down one side, across the bottom, and up the other side (tucking in the other edges and sticking the other elastic in, just as you did on the first side).

Being sure not to block your opening, add three pleats and clip or pin them.  (See, if my opening were just a bit higher here I’d have more room for the pleats.)

Hold the mask in front of you and be sure the pleats are even.

Sew across one side.  When you get to the end, go ahead and turn the fabric and sew back across that same side a second time so that it is nice and secure.

Measure 2″ in from each edge and sew a line across the middle, just under where my fingers are.  Make it about the width of your presser foot.  This is a space where a nose wire can be inserted.  (twisty tie, pipe cleaner, etc)  It can be removed for washing.  Also, some of the hospitals are requesting no wires, so this makes the mask useable either way.

In the very center of the bottom of the mask, make a little fold and sew back and forth across it.  This helps the mask to fit nicely around the chin.

This shows a twisty tie being inserted into the mask:

You’re all set!

Ok, for versions 2 and 3, keep scrolling.  Elastic is hard to find around here because all the crafters snapped it up to sew masks with!  I’ve made two different versions of this mask with cloth ties.  For this version, make four cloth ties (15-18″ each is what I’ve heard is best).  Add them in right where you would place the elastic, using the above pattern pretty much the same way.  My tie pieces started at 2″ wide, iron them in half the long way, then fold the edges in just like double fold bias tape and sew it up, tucking in the raw edge on the one end that will be loose.

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For version 3, you will sew the main mask piece closed, pleat it, and add the nose wire channel first.  You can cut two pieces of fabric, 2″ x 40″ (the width of my fabric) and make straps.  Iron the strap piece in half long ways (so now it is 1″ wide).

Open your strap and find the middle of it.  Sew the back of the mask on to the strap like the picture shows:

Fold your strap around and pin or clip it shut, being sure to tuck in the raw edge at the end.  Sew from one end all the way down, over the mask, and on to the other end of the strap. Do this on both sides and you’re all set!  I think I left the chin tuck off of this one, but you could add one.

Let me know if you have any questions, I’ll try to answer.  Hope this is helpful!  Thanks for sewing!

 

Grassroots Volunteering

Our Story:

It all started at the nursing home.  I was holding a toddler on my hip and had two other small children clinging to me, one on each leg… they were terrified.  I smiled and nodded in the direction of an elderly resident and my kids shuffled in closer to me.  We looked ridiculous huddled in the corner, me unable to move without setting off a panic attack in one of my kids.  Thankfully a few of my other children and the group we were with milled about the room chatting and receiving compliments on the piano performance they had just done.  Meanwhile I was suffocating.  We were supposed to be here, right?  Why was this so hard?  

I didn’t want to give up our visits to the nursing home, but in that moment I realized that there must be other ways we could volunteer.  I needed to find opportunities that would fit my kids personalities better.  This set off a year long kind of experiment that I pulled together.  I wanted to prove to my kids that they could enjoy serving others.  I wanted to show them the many ways that people see a need and step in.  I want them to be the kind of people who volunteer, who help, who see needs and fill them. 

In the past I felt like volunteering with kids was a lot of “purchase these items at the store and donate them.”  While we were happy to do that from time to time, it just wasn’t the type of thing we could do regularly.  … um, have you been to the store with six kids?  Its not an experience I want to repeat often, but mostly it just feels very disconnected for my kids.  We needed to find some hands on projects to be involved with as well.

All this in mind, I started searching.  It actually took quite a bit of planning and work.  Some organizations just didn’t have a need my kids could fill, others were happy to have us.  Some places I had never even heard of until I started keeping my eyes open for opportunities.  Since August, we’ve met my goal of serving somewhere at least once a month (and we still go back to see our friends at the nursing home too!).  Over time my kids got excited about this plan and they often ask “Where are we going next month?  And where after that?”  By God’s grace, volunteering has become regular for our family.  Its not a box that we check every now and then, but an exciting part of my kids’ lives.  

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Q and A:

How do you do it?

I just email places and ask if we can volunteer.  I tell them I have a group of 16 kids, ages 14 down to 3.  I say we’re learning about volunteering and going to lots of different places and ask if we can help them somehow.  (The 16 kids?  We take 4 other families with us!  As long as I’m setting something up, I might as well invite friends too!)  I usually start looking for our next volunteer place a month or two ahead because it can take some time to coordinate schedules and set everything up.

Where have you gone? 

Love INC – a thrift store/ food bank.  This was one of my kids all time favorite places to go and the lady there was fabulous with the kids. 

Kids Food Basket – packages up lunches and snacks for kids in need

Rescue Mission – helped with the Thanksgiving banquet

Nestlings Diaper Bank – packaged up diapers to be distributed around the county

Salvation Army – helped sort toys for low income families at Christmas

Hope Packages – collected items and made backpacks for kids entering foster care

Family Hope Center (Rescue Mission’s women and children center) – sewed bright fun pillowcases to be given to residents, had a tour of the center

Days For Girls – helped sew cloth kits for girls in Africa

Medilodge nursing home – the kids play their instruments, sing, and sometimes sit and color with the residents.  We also like to make cards and deliver them to bedridden people here.

What do you have lined up for the future?

Oh I have a whole list!  We are going back to Love Inc and Medilodge.  We’re taking a tour of Mobility Worldwide, a place that makes carts for disabled kids in other countries (and this summer we plan to raise the money to sponsor a cart).  The Salvation Army has a food drive in the spring.  We are signed up to go help sort food on a Saturday.  My kids love going to the monastery so I’m hoping to attend the spring clean up day (May 30).  I’m interested in meeting with a therapy dog/owner team and hearing about what they do.  As I think of ideas or come across opportunities I make note of it.  Sometimes they pan out, sometimes they lead me to something else.  I’m not sure if we’ll keep trying everything we come across, or if we’ll eventually settle in to some favorite places we return regularly.  We’ll see what happens.

Do you specifically “teach” your kids anything as you take these trips?

For the most part I’ve tried to let the experiences speak for themselves, but we have had some good talks about the power of teamwork.  (“12 of us worked for an hour packing up food, if Miss Lisa had done that all by herself how long would that have taken her?  12 hours, a whole day!  Wow, we got a lot done just by working with our friends for an hour and that was really helpful for them!”)  I also like to point out to my kids that there are so many different ways to serve and that every personality can find something they enjoy and are good at.  I love learning about the various organizations and how they started and so on.  I’m learning just as much as my kids.

What changes have you seen or do you hope to see in your kids?

Well for one thing, we’ve volunteered so much that my kids just expect it.  Its not a big deal to take time out of our week to go somewhere, even though it didn’t start out feeling that way.  I’m thankful for that.  As we’ve gone to the nursing home over time the kids have learned some of the elderly people’s names and look forward to seeing them.  I’ve even started volunteering on my own at a place called Love Sews.  They sew quilts for people who’ve had life changing circumstances.  Its a really nice mama evening out when I can get away and sew for a few hours and Love Sews is a fabulous organization.  We all look forward to our various volunteer trips and I’m excited to see what happens next!  We’ll definitely keep volunteering!

Anything else you want to share?

Yes!  Please don’t take this as me bragging about what we’ve done!  It was a friend of mine who got my family started going to the nursing home in the first place.  🙂  I’ve just become really passionate about volunteering and wanted to share our experience.  Of course that experience isn’t going to be exactly the same for everyone and you’ll find what works best for you.  I just want to encourage people to get out there and try something.  Even with a large family, even with really shy kids, even if you don’t know what you’re doing! 

If this inspires you to try volunteering somewhere new, I’d love to hear about it.  And if you hear of new volunteer opportunities my kids and I could do, please let me know!

Curriculum Fall 2019

My oldest daughter will start high school this fall!!  Cue the record keeping, transcripts, credits, and so forth.  I think we’ve got a good start lined up for ninth grade.  I’ve pulled from Heart of Dakota and other curriculums and curated what I think will work best for us.  New this year, Lucy will be taking an online class through Saint Raphael School.  Having discussions with other Orthodox kids and the teacher will be good for her, especially since she isn’t working alongside Julia as much.

*I wrote this in the spring as I worked on planning.  A few things changed along the way and as we got started I changed a bit more.  Added those changes today (October).*

9th grade – Lucy

History and Literature – St Raphael Orthodox School online (2 credits)

Science – PAC Integrated Physics and Chemistry (1 credit)

MathTeaching Textbooks Algebra 1 (1 credit) – switched to Unlock Math

Grammar – Fix It Grammar

Spelling – Rod and Staff 8

WritingInstitute for Excellence in Writing Student Writing Intensive C, using Help for Highschool from Bravewriter instead

Spanish – Lifepac Spanish 1 (1 credit)

Piano (1 fine arts credit) 

Ballet(1 physical education credit)

Art – Sketchbox combined with some lessons online (1/2 credit)

Logic – The Art of Argument (1/2 credit) took this out for now, it was too much for her.  Not sure if we’ll add the business course in the Spring or not:

Intro to Business – Whatever Happened to Penny Candy, Usborne Understanding Business, Common Sense Business for Kids (second semester, 1/2 credit)

Over the spring/summer we plan to listen to audio CDs of Story of the World 4 because we’ve just never gotten to much modern history.  Lucy also just started typing lessons online and will continue those over the summer.  (We didn’t get this done!  Lucy did request that I buy Mystery of History book 4 because she enjoyed reading book 3 last year.  She’s reading through it on her own.)

 

7th grade – Julia has been paired up with Lucy for much of her schooling so far.  With Lucy headed into high school, Julia will be working with Esther on a few things.  I’m excited about their IEW writing course, I think they will both enjoy that.  They’ll also be working together on history and science this coming year.

History – Around the World 2 – Beautiful Feet Books

Science – Apologia Zoology

Math – Teaching Textbooks 7

Reading – Reading Detective A1

Grammar – Fix It Grammar

WritingIEW Fables, Myths, and Fairy Tales Bravewriter

Spelling – Rod and Staff 6

Piano

Art – Sketchbox combined with some lessons online

Byzantine Chant 101

Gymnastics

Spanish – Duolingo, Spanish for Children Primer A from CAP

 

4th grade – Esther  We’ve loved our Beautiful Feet Around the World studies.  We’re starting Part 2 in the next month or so and will continue on in the fall.  After Part 2, we’ll choose another Beautiful Feet program to work through together (Julia, Esther, and Isaac).

History – Around the World 2

Science – Apologia Zoology

Math – Math Mammoth 4

Reading – Reading Detective Beginning

Grammar – Fix It Grammar

WritingIEW Fables, Myths, and Fairy Tales Bravewriter

Spelling – Rod and Staff 4

Piano

Art – Sketchbox combined with some lessons online

Gymnastics

Spanish – Duolingo, Spanish for Children Primer A from CAP

Lego education kit – gears, wheels, levers, etc

 

2nd gradeIsaac 

History – Around the World 2

Science – Apologia Zoology

Math – Math Mammoth 2

Reading – Sonlight readers with comprehension questions

Phonics – Rod and Staff Phonics 2

Spelling – Rod and Staff Spelling 2

Grammar – Fix It Grammar (he does the fixes in the book but not the copywork)

Cooking – Raddish Kids

Lego education kit – gears, wheels, levers, etc

Handwriting – Zaner-Bloser Handwriting 2M  What was I thinking?  Writing spelling words, writing in his phonics book, and writing in math is all this guy can handle.  🙂

 

Kindergarten!  We’ll have a kindergartener this fall!  Colin will use My Father’s World Kindergarten, modified slightly.  We’ll use the learn to read, math, and handwriting worksheets but skip the science/ unit studies portion.  I’ll also pull activities from A Year of Playing Skillfully, my favorite preschool program.

 

I don’t have Bible listed as a subject above because its something we do together in the mornings (or aim to!).  We meet first thing in the morning for prayers together, reading a saint story, and reading through some catachesis type books.

That’s my plan for now!  Any thoughts?  Care to share what you’re planning or working on?  Feel free to leave a comment.  🙂

Curriculum Review 2018

Its that time again!  Mid-year I enjoy evaluating our curriculum and making a plan for the coming year.  When spring arrives, I’m ready to shelve the books and get outside, so January is a good time to make my plans for the next year.  I’ll start with a quick review of what we’ve been doing and post again soon with my plans for the next year.  Here is my blog post with what we’re currently using: Curriculum Fall 2018.

Lucy (8th grade) – Heart of Dakota has been going well for her.  She’s learning some good skills that will prepare her for high school; the IEW writing course has been great.  Apologia astronomy was a neat book – now I want to use other Apologia elementary books with the younger kids.  Overall, Heart of Dakota is… a lot.  A lot of history, a lot of extra work, a little too much that I want to tweak.  I’ve pulled heavily from their recommendations for next year, but our direction has changed just a bit.  We’ll complete this year and then move on to other things.  Teaching Textbooks is still working well for math for both her and Julia.

Julia (6th grade) – Heart of Dakota ended up being a bit much for Julia and what she can handle this year.  We’re in the middle of some health challenges with her and have needed to lighten her load.  She is doing some basic things – math, copywork, reading, Spanish on the ipad, piano.  As Lucy heads into high school, Julia will work more with Esther and Isaac on history, science, and a few other things.  I love that with homeschooling we can adapt as we go and meet her where she is right now.


Esther and Isaac (3rd and 1st) are working through Around the World and loving it.  The short units work wonderfully for us- we can pause when sick or needing a break for whatever reason and easily pick things up again without feeling behind.  We never used the Evan Moor science that I purchased for them, we’ve had plenty to study in Around the World.  The only other change is that Isaac has been copying down words from Zelda instead of using his handwriting curriculum book.  Hey, he’s happy and we’re rolling with it!   Math, phonics, spelling, everything else is right on level for both of them and working well.  This is the first time we’ve used Cheerful Cursive and I really like it.  Esther is doing well with cursive.

Next year starts high school and keeping a transcript for Lucy!  I think I’ve got a good plan down and some exciting things lines up.  I’ll post the full plan for everyone soon.

Beautiful Feet Around the World with Picture Books Review

Beautiful Feet Books publishes homeschool curriculum.  We are using Around the World with Picture Books this year for Isaac and Esther, my first and third graders.  We just finished a two week section on China and had so much fun!

 

Around the World Pack - Beautiful Feet Books

It was a bit hard to tell from the Beautiful Feet website what exactly we were getting into, so I will do my best to describe things here.  I wish they had better, clearer samples up for people to look through.  I’m going to write this post question style with some of the questions that came to mind as I was researching this guide.  Feel free to ask more in the comments and I will try to answer.  The kids and I are loving this curriculum so far!

What do you do each day?  

We sit down with the guide and do whatever the next lesson or section tells us to do.  There are picture books to read with discussion questions included, videos to look up online and watch, pictures to color and paste into a notebook, and so on.  The guide is full color and includes photos to look at with the children.  The book Maps is one of the super cool resources that my kids love looking at.  The recommended picture books have been great too.

How long does it take?

Each day we work for about 30 minutes to an hour.  We do this daily but it can also be used just a few times a week.  The guide is really flexible in that you could spend more time researching things the kids are interested in, or you can do something quicker on days you have less time.  We’ve been finding it hard to move on to our other subjects each day because there is so much to look at and learn in the guide.

How much prep work is there?

I actually love looking through the guide because it is so pretty.  I have spent a little bit of time looking for recipes, adding a few small ideas of my own, and putting books on hold at the library.  Once you have the books, the guide is fairly open and go.  I’ve added a few little things that were just “extras”.  For example, I looked through the international aisle at my grocery store and picked up some candy from Japan for our next unit.  🙂

Are the library books necessary?

Yes!  While the guide comes with picture books that are recommended for purchase and sold on Beautiful Feet Books website right along with the guide… there ARE also books that you will want to buy or get from the library.  In the China section for example there were three library books that had discussion questions included for them, six more books on various historical events and people, and five picture books to read just for fun – aside from the books you purchase.  I highly recommend getting the library books, they have all been fabulous choices and really round out the guide.  We read some of the books over lunch or in the evenings with Daddy.  I look at the unit ahead of time and request everything we need from the library and maybe purchase one or two if I can’t find them.  The books seem to be fairly popular titles as my library has had several copies of each and I’ve not had too much trouble getting them so far.

What do we add?  

In addition to Around the World, my first grader does Math Mammoth, Rod and Staff phonics, handwriting, and reading (using the Emerging Readers Set from Heart of Dakota).

My third grader does Math Mammoth, Rod and Staff phonics, handwriting, and reading (using the Emerging Readers Set from Heart of Dakota) plus Rod and Staff spelling, piano, and Duolingo Spanish.

I bought Evan Moor Skill Sharpeners Science Grade 2 for them both to do, but it probably wasn’t necessary.  Studying the animals in the guide has been plenty for my kids and could easily be expanded just a bit by looking up more information on each one.  I haven’t pulled out the Evan Moor science yet and I’m hoping my kids forget about it.  Ha.

I feel there really is a lot in the guide.  We added a few fun touches – I bought some plastic pandas (because I have younger kids to entertain too), a small bamboo plant from the grocery store (to draw in our journal and for the pandas to climb on), and we decorated for our Chinese feast with lanterns and banners.  These were just fun things that we ended up doing; I didn’t feel the need to go searching for more ideas or add to what is already in the guide.

What is your favorite part?

The stories!  I am impressed each time we pick up a new book to read or I flip through the guide reading about what is to come.  The recommended picture books include fun well written fiction books as well as true human interest type stories.  I am just as excited as the kids are to pick up the next book!  Go here and click on each book and take a look at what you’ll be reading, this is what sold me on the guide.  This is just a small taste though because the library books in the guide are equally as fabulous.


Ok, I have one more favorite part – our journals.  Esther and Isaac are doing such a good job with these!  We color and paste in a map of the country, the flag, animals, and various other things that we study.  I actually have my own journal going right along with the kids just because it looked like so much fun.

I’ll admit that yes, we’ve only used the curriculum for a few weeks now, and my opinion may change over time.  I wanted to go ahead and post about it though while my thoughts were fresh in my mind.  This curriculum is a wonderful fit for us right now, my kids are thriving with it, and I look forward to using it on a daily basis.  We’re savoring every bit of it, and I’m already planning on doing part 2 next.

Any questions?  Leave a comment. 🙂

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Rethinking the Baby Gear

If you read my baby registry blog post, you may have noticed a lack of typical baby gear.  A few years ago I came across a blog by an OT mama who was sharing about infant development and how baby gear can affect that.  My youngest at the time had some muscle tightness and head shape issues that we had worked through with our chiropractor.  I could instantly see though, how the gear he used and where he spent his time, affected him.  I was shocked that nowhere else had I encountered such important information!  He was out of the baby gear stage, but I decided that I would do things differently with the next baby.

Because of the issues we had with Colin, I decided to go ahead and get rid of some of our gear and look for alternatives.  I got rid of our Rock N Play, swing, doorway jumper, jumperoo, and a few other things.  On the plus side, this helped me clear out some bulky things taking up space in my attic.  On the other hand, I sure hoped our next baby would be ok with this new plan!

We’ve worked hard at keeping Annette on flat surfaces and being conscious of where and how she spends her time.  She is currently eight months old and I’m really happy with her development.  She never had any head shape issues, did really well on her tummy, and is crawling and standing up already.  You can read a day-in-the-life post I did here, detailing how it was all going. (will post that tomorrow)

If you’re not sure what I’m talking about, go check out CanDoKiddo.com.  Read her blog posts and books, take her email courses, follow her Facebook page, and so on!  The great thing about Rachel from CanDoKiddo is that she’s a mom too so she’s very understanding of the need to use baby gear.  She has a balanced approach to things and doesn’t even tell you to get rid of your gear, but to limit baby’s time in it.  I highly suggest checking out some of her posts on the topic though for more info.

Baby Gear

 

This is what we decided to use and really liked for baby:

  • DockATot – I loved this for helping baby sleep on her back from about 0-5 months.  Worth the price tag for sure because she slept so well!
  • bouncy seat – This is just a safe place to put baby.  We limited her time here.
  • Tiny Love Rocker Napper – I have one that lays completely flat, apparently not all of them do?  This was our downstairs daytime napping place.  I would also bring it in the kitchen and put her in this while I cooked or did dishes.
  • Solly Baby Wrap – Sooo much better than other wraps because the fabric is lightweight and it folds up small!
  • infant car seat – This stays in the car.  I use a wrap to carry baby while inside places.
  • Ikea baby gym – We love this!  It is still out at 8 months for diaper changes and sitting up play.  She can even pull herself up to standing and it doesn’t tip over.
  • soft blanket on the floor – Pottery Barn crib quilts are nice and thick.  I did use a Boppy pillow a few times to help with tummy time play too.
  • Babyhawk mei tai – We graduate to this from the Solly Wrap.
  • Ergo baby carrier – I use this after the Babyhawk, once baby has good head control.  It usually stays in the van and is used in stores, church, etc.
  • walker (no wheels, its just kind of a baby stander-upper) – Limited time in this, it kinda replaces the bouncy seat as a quick place to put baby as she gets bigger.
  • Pack N Play – We co-sleep at night, but naps are in the Pack N Play so that she doesn’t roll off my bed.
  • Floppy Seat – Once baby can sit up well this is great, we keep it in the van.
  • Ikea Antilop high chair – My favorite high chair.  We prop towels around baby at first because she’s so tiny, even though she does sit up well.

Notes: This might look like a lot, but it is literally everything that Annette has spent time in for her first year.  I don’t even have all of this gear out at once either.  The top row all gets put away by about 6-7 months (stored in the attic for future babies).  The car seat, baby carriers, and the Floppy seat all stay in the van.  The bottom row doesn’t get used until about 6 months on.  We do own a double stroller, but with it being winter here, I’ve only put Annette in it once for a short walk.  She didn’t like it and I ended up carrying her anyway.

Not pictured: mama’s arms, big sisters’ arms, and lots of time spent interacting with siblings! 🙂